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   “I began masturbating when I was eight years old. Later I learned God’s view of the matter. I felt terrible every time I gave in. ‘How could God love someone like me?’ I asked myself.”​—Luiz. WHEN you reach puberty, sexual desires can become particularly strong. As a result, you might fall into a habit of masturbation. *  Many would say that it’s not a big deal. “No one gets hurt,” they argue. However, there’s good reason to avoid the practice. The apostle Paul wrote: “Deaden, therefore, your body members . . . as respects . . . sexual appetite.” ( Colossians 3:5 ) Masturbation does not deaden sexual appetite but  fuels  it. In addition, consider the following: ● Masturbation instills attitudes that are totally self-centered. For example, when masturbating, a person is immersed in his or her own body sensations. ● Masturbation causes one to view those of the opposite sex as mere objects, or tools, for self-gratification. ● The ...

The hibiscus flower known as “zobo” in the Hausa language is very nutritious and the drink gotten from boiling the leaves of hibiscus is nutritious, sweet and loved by many Nigerians. It is available all year round and can be found in many restaurants and many people also hawk zobo drink. It is also very easy to prepare. It has a fresh and delicious taste, it originated in West Africa and it has lots of tremendous health benefits. Health Benefits of Zobo It is nutritious Zobo drink is a very nutritious drink and it is cheap. Regular intake of this drink can fight nutritional deficiencies and prevent malnutrition. Some important and vital nutrients provided by zobo drink are carotenes, vitamin C, thiamine, calcium, fat, iron, fiber, phosphorous, riboflavin, and niacin. All these nutrients boost your health and improve the functions of various tissues, organs, and systems in the body. This drink strengthens the immune system and improves your overall health. It boosts H...

                          "Sometimes life throws at you awkward and unbelievable circumstances and challenges that would betray your conscience, belief, personality and your efforts in building yourself. Sometimes you sit and wonder, looking at yourself in the mirror and shocked, you begin to wonder what life still had left for you, at such point you have betrayed yourself, you loose confidence, trust, and joy, you can call it "depression" against the principles that serve as your guide in the present and the future, there is only one way out TRUST IN GOD, allow him".         

The nature of sexual fantasies is they push the boundaries a bit, letting you imagine situations that occur infrequently, if at all, and exploring the depths of your desires. "Fantasies are fantasies because they are not reality — they are often taboo or rub up against social barriers," says Ian Kerner, PhD, a men's sexual health expert and co-author of  The Big Fun Sexy Sex Book . Men tend to have core thematic fantasies that they can return to again and again, he adds, and "then there are fantasies that men would enjoy in the way they surf TV, exploring what catches their eye or their mood."  here are 9 of the most common men's sexual fantasies. Perhaps one of the simplest male sexual fantasies is just having his partner direct the sex script for the night. "Whether it is a full-on dominatrix or simply a woman who knows what she wants and how to get it, many men find the thrill of a confident and sexual woman to be very appealing,...

 Inside Ed Sheeran and Cherry  Seaborn's star-studded wedding  party. It has been nine months since the couple said 'I do' Ed Sheeran  and Cherry Seaborn are set to celebrate their marriage with a fun carnival-inspired party, nine months after they tied the knot. The couple, who married in a private ceremony with 40 of their closest friends and family in December, are expected to be joined by guests including  Jennifer Aniston ,  Elton John  and  Princess Eugenie  at the party, with preparations well underway. A Big Top has been erected in a Suffolk field that is surrounded by trees and woodland, with only access to the venue via one dirt path, helping to ensure privacy at the exclusive event. Security officers were seen at the circus tent at the weekend, ahead of the exciting party. Ed Sheeran and Cherry Seaborn are set to host a wedding party for their friends Ed and Cherry’s party comes two months after the  Sha...

Every woman on earth has fantasized about some explicit sexual fantasy that she may or may not have been too ashamed to talk about. Whether it's your girlfriend or your wife, this top ten list is sure to touch on a forbidden fantasy of her own. Although most women prefer to leave their fantasies at that, others have a list that they are slowly but surely accomplishing. So the next time your woman seems to be wandering off in thought, who knows, she may be cruising around in the mystical world of sexual fantasy. So do you think you can guess what some of them are? This list took a lot of time to comprise (and a few bottles of red wine as well), and the women's names have been changed to protect their privacy. So the next time you're engaging in pillow talk with your lady of the night, her fantasy may be more common than you might think. drum roll please.. Keep in mind that fantasies are a normal and healthy part of our sexuality. They are either taken f...

Nigerians, seeking to avoid future marriage disasters, often turn to God for guidance before choosing a spouse. We examine the pros, cons and wisdom, if any, in this National behaviour. The need to not be seen as a marriage failure trumps physical safety, mental wellness and overall happiness because of the stigma and societal side-eye often directed at those who are unmarried at a certain age, and those who have had cause to separate from their spouses. That collective side-eye is especially more piercing, more judgmental towards women who have had to make the tough decision to break away from their partners, many times for reasons beyond their control. Everyone tries to avoid the separation and divorce ordeal, thereby making the process of choosing a partner very sensitive for most Nigerians who, having been relentlessly socialised along the lines above, want to ensure that they never experience any of the marriage disasters aforementioned. Owing to this, being wat...